alt Hacker Newssqlx at least has the (optional) offline mode, where you "cargo sqlx prepare" once (which wants access to a db) and then you can build in offline mode which typechecks your queries against local files.
Although I suppose that's still doing a lot of shenanigans at compile time. It could be sandboxed pretty well (theoretically). I'd hate to give it up completely though, getting a compile time error when SELECT query params or return values have type mismatches is extremely nice.
sqlx offline mode being opt-in instead of default is what bothers me. You know what else can validate that your queries return what you expect? Integration tests. Shoutout to sqlx for #[sqlx::test] though.