I'm not a big fan of arguments like "it's not the real [human quality], it's [mechanistic explanation]." They lack a part: "because the [human quality] allows us to do X, Y, Z, which is impossible with [this mechanism]."
I agree that the relevance of retrieved pieces and the management of long-term storage could be improved, though.
I just don’t find it really relevant to the argument presented I guess. I disable auto memory and have my own mechanisms and infrastructure with how my agentic system “knows” and “remembers” things which is roughly an automated, sometimes self-correcting working index on the file system. It behaves much better than claude’s automated “memory” system, so I use that, but digging into how that worked and making something of my own just makes me really dismissive of comparing it to something like actual memory, so I apologize if it came off dismissive.