Graphene relies on donations, and will be dependent on more than just the users where their lives are at risk.
If everyone in North America and Europe stopped using Graphene, I doubt they would last very long.
High standards are great, but they have to interact with the community and the sanctimony doesn't help.
In a world where economics makes security hardly a secondary concern, a situation exploited by both the intelligence and surveillance broker sectors, dogmatic sanctimony for high security is a feature and not a bug.