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oilkillsbirdsyesterday at 8:53 PM22 repliesview on HN

This is pure escapism. Numbing yourself to the burden of being. Likely from a stress tolerance so shallow and under-developed that the slightest inconvenience or expectation feels like a crisis.

The truth is that after the brief initial relief of excusing yourself from being anything at all, you'll end up in a deep depression. It's a naive and immature fantasy.

Remove all electronics from your life, they are a constant nervous system stimulator that has prevented you from truly relaxing into a state of repair. Then introduce responsibilities into your life, start small. We are wired to be needed, wanted, useful, accountable, social. You're just stressed out.


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savolaiyesterday at 9:02 PM

Not sure at all you actually read the piece. Your responses about having a job or inconvenience or expectation seem entirely unrelated.

The text does not, for instance, encourage not having a job. It also does not encourage being nothing at all. Being nothing special is quite different.

Recommended movie: perfect days https://youtu.be/wqUT9hQd1XM?is=v1x85FdKOK_zfu60

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michael0churchyesterday at 10:43 PM

It also ignores the real stresses imposed by society on ordinary people. The point of an NPC is stasis. The walking signpost gives you the same information, or the weapon shop sells you the same broad sword, whether you take 3 hours or 203 hours to get to that point in the game. The NPC has no inner life; it’s code that only exists when it is doing a job.

In the real world, stasis gets you killed. Someone is paid hundreds of thousands of dollars (maybe millions) to find out if you can be made to pay more in rent, accept higher air fares or hotel fees, work longer hours, or accept lower wages. You can’t choose not to be part of the war. You either fight and accept intolerable stress, or you don’t fight and you still accept intolerable stress.

RGammayesterday at 9:11 PM

I don't interpret it to that extreme. I think it's more about shutting out noise and acting along a thread that keeps you pleased without interference from e.g. brainrot media or an over-demanding job.

Arguably a reason most everyone found the early internet/web so awesome: it wasn't as commoditized into feeds and platforms. You were an adventurer on an undiscovered planet, a secret life beside the boring real one and just did your thing. It's how most of us ended up here, anyhow.

AJMaxwellyesterday at 9:22 PM

I feel like we aren't reading the same thing.

chasd00yesterday at 10:28 PM

Who is this “we” you speak of? I see this word thrown around a lot here. Never use “we” in a sentence unless you’re referring to another individual directly. It’s beyond arrogant to assume you have the authority to speak for all others.

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sharmajaiyesterday at 9:53 PM

You'd be a great CEO, preaching people to tie their worth to their output in life.

nicoyesterday at 9:12 PM

> Likely from a stress tolerance so shallow and under-developed that the slightest inconvenience or expectation feels like a crisis

Maybe, but that could also be because of autism, trauma or some other disability

And maybe the author just wants to feel heard, get others to comment on their experiences, be vulnerable in public (which btw can be pretty stressful too), and connect with their community

henk53yesterday at 9:38 PM

> We are wired to be needed, wanted, useful, accountable, social.

When AI eventually takes nearly ALL jobs, that will be a quite difficult thing.

brisket_bronsonyesterday at 10:29 PM

> you'll end up in a deep depression

That’s a stretch and in realm of pure speculation.

A blacksmith is useful for society and for himself. It’s a profession and it’s not anything. OP’s point is that profession compared to chasing dragons. I’m tired of chasing dragons and very happy focusing on my own life.

ms_menarditoday at 2:00 AM

a low stress tolerance and a highly sensitized stress reaction can often look the same. If someone is hurt repeatedly in the same way, they will react when a stimuli that reminds them of it comes near. Similarly, people who are constantly stressed out often develop things like "learned helplessness", where they are incapable of solving their problems because they've failed, been rejected, or told no so many times that they stop trying.

boricjyesterday at 9:26 PM

That can happen with a high stress tolerance too, it just needs to be pushed past the breaking point. Some of us have gone through harrowing experiences and the NPC lifestyle is one coping mechanism among many others.

john_strinlaiyesterday at 8:58 PM

i dont think it's that deep.

it's the age old advice of "dont give a fuck" dressed up in some modern terminology ("npc")

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JKCalhounyesterday at 10:58 PM

(Singer) Paul Simon said he no longer plays "I Am a Rock" at shows.

bugbullyesterday at 11:06 PM

> The truth is that after the brief initial relief of excusing yourself from being anything at all, you'll end up in a deep depression.

So status quo lol?

NegativeLatencyyesterday at 9:59 PM

Feels more like they're discovering Taoism to me

jamesjolliffeyesterday at 8:57 PM

I don't know if I fully agree with this analysis, but I really appreciate the argument for emphasizing these values.

morpheos137today at 3:06 AM

Yeah if you are a "non playing character" why play at all?

jonaustinyesterday at 11:53 PM

Not all of us live for The Hustle...

Henchman21yesterday at 10:49 PM

Bro, this ain’t LinkedIn you don’t have to signal your virtue as a worker so hard

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robomcyesterday at 9:18 PM

wtf are you talking about. Being a blacksmith isn't pure escapism.