> Anyone who is even quite intelligent but has really pursued the rigorous stuff, unless they are in fact a prodigy, eventually realizes they have an abstraction ceiling
Eh. I'm a math PhD who fled academia because it was too much for me. But I have never encountered this term "abstraction ceiling" nor did I succumb to it. I simply ran out of motivation to pursue higher math, especially when following through on learning and research became more and more labor. (It was always labor; but it was a labor I used to love.) I am far from a prodigy.
> even epsilon-delta proofs are enough to eliminate the majority of the population, no matter how good a teacher you are
Disagree. It's a notoriously hard subject to teach, and with all the demands placed on e-d in so little time in your average curriculum, it doesn't require appeals to IQ to explain its infamy. With enough motivation and practice, the quantifier alternation is comprehensible to any sound mind. What your average mind (and student) lacks is exposure to formalism, abstraction, and how these things tie in with what they are familiar with, which is symbolic manipulation. With the exception of geometric proofs (another educational bugbear), they have little context for what formalism is or why it matters.
> Eh. I'm a math PhD who fled academia because it was too much for me. But I have never encountered this term "abstraction ceiling" nor did I succumb to it.
This sounds a lot like you may have in fact succumbed to your abstraction ceiling, because in practice, the ceiling manifests as not as it being impossible for you to learn something, but that it would take you years and inordinate effort to master what you notice others mastering easily in just a fraction of the time. You may have not heard the exact term (comes from Douglas Hofstadter), and you may be talking about just the academic busywork, but I find it hard to believe you never encountered discussions about this kind of stuff. I would also politely suggest that unless you are Terry Tao posting under some kind of alt, you most certainly do have an abstraction ceiling (or your own mathematical limits) too.
> It's a notoriously hard subject to teach, and with all the demands placed on e-d in so little time in your average curriculum, it doesn't require appeals to IQ to explain its infamy. With enough motivation and practice, the quantifier alternation is comprehensible to any sound mind
The latter statement is obviously false, but regardless, intelligence explains some of the difficulty, and much other difficulties far more parsimoniously than "everyone could just learn any math if they just tried hard enough and had good enough teachers". E-d is merely an obvious and generally familiar example, and nothing I said really relies on this very specific aspect of maths, obviously. We also shouldn't pretend your (almost certainly false) view of math and intelligence isn't also often harmful to struggling students in its own way.