> I've been still just like, making VM's with proxmox, then putting my agent in the machine and letting it run free

I outgrew this when I wanted to bring different sets of skills and templates to different machines, wanted to be able to share a small number of credentials, different agents in different machines, different egress rules etc. I wrote https://github.com/pjlsergeant/byre which gives you a TUI and some machinery for doing this easily on top of Docker or Podman.