My experience with obliteration so far has always been that it does work to stop the model from refusing output, but most models that I tried it on seem to still be extremely retarded when it comes to questions where they previously would have refused to answer outright. Try for example to ask it how to build a bomb or to write a justification for the Holocaust. The answers feel like they are coming from somebody who has undergone amateur brain surgery.
You can stop it refusing but you can't make it tell you things that aren't in the training data