I've been having great results with this kind of thing. I find that really just need a sensible framework within which the optimization can take place. Essentially just providing the measurement harness, and some sort of motivation for what I'm doing.
The great thing about LLM is that it seems to have the checklist for everything. If I rattle off a few things like "don't allocate on the hot path" and "remember to pin the cores" it will come up with a few items of its own that I might have forgotten.
Eventually, it will have gone through the whole list with me, while having documented all the measurements along the way.
But it's still guided by experience. If I see unusual numbers, I might say "hey did you forget to compile it in release mode?" and it will apologize and fix that. If I don't, it may just continue exploring without realising everything is wrong.