Yes!! I get all of those. My favorite is that 10% of the time it asks me on what app I want to play the music (Oh, Apple, you're suddenly deeply respectful of competing on an equal playing field?).
And don't forget whatever the current phrasing is for "I'm sorry, my shit's all fucked up" and "My network connectivity had a blip and I'm unwilling to retry" and "Even though I have on-device STT models, and now LLMs too, and an on-device database of your music, which is downloaded, I won't bother without the cloud.
so what's your problem? sell your apple products. I Know... you're from california, so this is heresy.
but once you calm down and stop hyperventilating from my suggestion, you'll see that the only reasonable and pragmatic course of action is to move to android and linux.