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SoftTalker • today at 8:40 PM • 0 replies • view on HN

Just do other things you like and don't worry about women. Relationships bring heartache and grief a good percentatge of the time anyway. Being engaged in things you like doing will bring you into contact with others and friendships or more may develop. But don't do them with that expectation.

If you don't know what to do, try to get involved with helping others in some way. It can be rewarding and give you a broader perspective on life.