alt Hacker NewsBeen gone through something similar. It's important to be persistent. My PET-CT was originally scheduled for 6 weeks, and they couldn't get it sooner. I had to call every imaging labs within 50-100 miles radius, eventually got one within the next couple of days.
The next important one is to find the best doctor you could afford. I didn't have a lot of faith on my local oncologist, especially when he said that my cancer (nasopharyngeal carcinoma) is rare and had not much experience with it. I was able to get ahold of the chief surgeon at UCSF, purely by luck. Felt a lot better when he said that this type of cancer is pretty common for south-asian descent. He has dealt with it quite often due to a large concentration of asian in the bay area.
The treatment sucks, but small price to pay considering I can spend more time with my family.
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> I was able to get ahold of the chief surgeon at UCSF
And people like this are typically not that difficult to get in contact with via email.
Hell, I’ve successfully used LinkedIn to get an appointment when calling the main office didn’t work.
Get creative and trust no one.
NPC is not rare even among not Asian-descent people, it’s just poorly documented; I lost my brother to it in July and we don’t have anybody coming from Asia our ancestry, that we know of. The doctor did said “there are only 20 cases of this in the world” after citing a paper where the sample size was 20. He did not order genetical tests nor tests for biomarkers for modern drugs. “Standard of care” my brother got in the US is from the 80s and it was unconnected to the molecular biology of his cancer (there has been a lot of relevant research in the last 20 years), but the doctors will subject you to it before even allowing you to access the better, most modern options. In my brother’s case, the standard of care treatment put fuel into his process instead of slowing it down, and by the time immunotherapies and other options were considered, it was already too late.
One thing I noticed is that the oncologists managed my brother far more than they actually worked on his case; oncologists are often overworked and, by necessity, desensitized. They are aware of new treatments because the pharma industry takes good care of that, but they are way less willing to read scientific literature relevant to a specific type of “rare cancer” present in a “single patient”, and they actually need the two things to be effective.
I feel for you and for your family; may the stars align for you and you get to be out of your crucible with the least amount of suffering.