Taildrop looks good, I didn't know about it.
But it's more for when you already use Tailscale, which relies on a central server and someone who "owns" that network.
In Flipflop you don't need anything besides the app, and each two peers form a "network" of their own, with no owner and no management.
> which relies on a central server and someone who "owns" that network
Tailscale connections are peer-to-peer. They only own the coordination server, which you can ignore and host your own.