You have the neighbors you have, and if you want to live in a "free country" then you have to accept that, that street goes both ways.

That doesn't mean, you can't invite your neighbors over pizza or coffee, be friendly and one day mention that you think X, Y or Z and you wouldn't mind helping, and if they they aren't interested you'll totally respect that.

Don't be a Karen. But being considerate the old school way can go far. The rest you just have to live with :)