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lakeviewterrace • yesterday at 8:39 PM • 15 replies • view on HN

When is this industry going to have an open, honest discussion about how not getting enough trim in your younger years makes you especially vulnerable to these schemes once you acquire power and wealth?

I've seen 80 variations of this same story over the years.


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_--__--__ • yesterday at 8:49 PM

Gates and Bezos slept around with younger women and lost more in divorces than 99.9999% of men could ever dream of making. Elon has recreated the backstabbing and infighting of imperial harem politics with a bunch of women he didn't even physically sleep with.

Despite his other failings you have to give Zuck credit for genuinely being a wholesome wifeguy by all appearances.

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nielsbot • yesterday at 8:41 PM

I can see it now. A US national security program to get future CEOs laid more. What.

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missedthecue • yesterday at 9:24 PM

I don't really understand the common wisdom that if you get enough when you're young, you won't want it later. It wasn't espionage, but Shannon Sharpe just lost a $100M ESPN media deal last year for chasing young tail, and he has been fit, wealthy, and famously a playboy surrounded by women since his early 20s if not earlier.

From what I have seen the truth is closer to the opposite; that you don't get it out of your system. You get it into your system. I'm afraid that if one truly wants to avoid these scandals you're better off following the Mike Pence playbook, not the Tony Stark one.

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Lerc • yesterday at 8:54 PM

I think that is a rather simplistic view of what motivates people.

I would at least like to see some statistics on how much early adulthood behaviour predicts particular later life behaviours before making any conclusions.

Rather than characterising things as 'getting enough trim' perhaps a broader education in dealing with the emotions of life might be more productive.

rglover • yesterday at 8:46 PM

Likely never as that's an ego death many of these guys couldn't handle. They'd implode from shame.

afavour • yesterday at 9:45 PM

I’m yet to see evidence that getting more in your youth makes you want less as you age.

alexjplant • yesterday at 9:20 PM

In a society as transactional as ours (contemporary US culture) one must ask themselves "cui bono?" a hundred times a day. I'd imagine that if the answer is "me" enough times the one develops blind spots such as this one.

On the flip side novels have been written about the lies people tell themselves when they get romantically entangled with obvious troublemakers. Those plots didn't come from nowhere...

wand3r • yesterday at 9:14 PM

It's not an unreasonable point, but let's not pretend these are naive chumps who crumble at the sight of a woman. In this case, Jensen could have been coordinating with intel agencies to feed disinformation or a honeypot honeypot. Obvious speculation, but clearly he understands the game on the table better than us. Still, it is a tactic as old as time, so I am sure plenty fall victim to some degree

jansport123 • today at 12:15 AM

they are probably gonna target these AI nerds next

MentalM • yesterday at 11:33 PM

> how not getting enough trim in your younger years makes you especially vulnerable to these schemes once you acquire power and wealth?

I don't sure there is any connection. It is the same things regardless of your popularity in younger years.

MrBuddyCasino • yesterday at 9:27 PM

universal basic girlfriend you say?

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JumpCrisscross • yesterday at 8:45 PM

> not getting enough trim in your younger years

Huh?

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some_random • yesterday at 9:14 PM

wtf would that discussion even look like?

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pphysch • yesterday at 8:55 PM

For each of your 80 stories there are probably a dozen stories of former frat boys and Trump/Epstein types also being in compromising relationships.

I think it has much less to do with any individual's sexual history and much more to do with the rapacious/hypersexual elite culture in USA and elsewhere.

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throwaway384034 • yesterday at 8:54 PM

Maybe monogamy is not natural for men?

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