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InsidiousWombat • today at 12:50 AM • 4 replies • view on HN

40% first marriages in US end in divorce. Second marriages have 60%. 2/3 initiated by women

You just need to know few people to qualify for "multiple times"


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com2kid • today at 3:09 AM

This number keeps coming up.

A: It hasn't been true for multiple generations. The # comes from when divorce was first legalized and there was a huge boom in divorces right away.

B: The number of failed marriages is dramatically increased by "frequent fliers" who get divorced multiple times.

College educated adults have a 25% divorce rate.

College education adults only have a 15% chance of their 2nd marriage failing.

helterskelter2 • today at 1:56 AM

> 2/3 initiated by women

You say this like 2/3 of divorce is the fault of women, but IME they usually have good reason to do so.

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poilcn • today at 2:54 AM

There is no conspiracy in it

Divorce implies involvement of a government institution and women feel like a fish in water when it comes to bureaucracy, while men avoid it

That's why in same-sex pairs women are twice likely to call cops and file a lawsuit regarding house abuse and men half as often

tenacious_tuna • today at 1:08 AM

It's a large jump from "divorces happen a lot" to "many startup founders have their highschool sweetheart honeypot them for child support"

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