Lets say the total market for an arbitrary winner-take-all industry is $100 Billion/year in profits. Just so that we have a round number. And for another round number, lets assume the fair market PE ratio is 20x. This over-simplification would then have a fair market valuation of $2 Trillion total.
Just simple napkin math.
Now, lets say there are 5 companies competing to be the winner. Only one can be the winner, but all 5 are trying to be the winner. How much should each company individually spend?
Well... starting-bid is $2 Trillion, or ~$10 Trillion in the aggregate. Its basically the waste of competition. Because everyone is vying for monopoly power, the only fair for them to all invest over $2 Trillion in the hopes of being the dominant one at the end. Even if $8 Trillion is wasted, that's "other companies", your competitors, who lose out.
But wait: if one company spends $2.1 Trillion, that one company likely becomes the winner and the other 4 companies lose out. So then another company spends $2.2 Trillion, to get ahead of that war. Etc. etc.