At this point there's a good chance there are much more than just two affairs.
If you spot two ants in your kitchen, the average number of ants is probably higher than two
i commented somewhere, it will hardly be the only one. I never knew somebody that cheated just once.
From Paulo Coelho's The Alchemist:
> Everything that happens once can never happen again. But everything that happens twice will surely happen a third time.
I've found that to be a very useful heuristic.