Like most office affairs its rarely if ever about that.

Mostly its about being treated nicely, talked nicely and all by the opposite gender. Even successful people have serious marital strife, where their partner makes them feel really bad, no matter what you do for them. Its just a part of marriage.

People deeply crave for love, affection, being wanted, cared and being talked to nicely.

There you see are deeply sought after needs of the human soul. Im guessing you are willing to trade something for it.