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ares623 • yesterday at 8:10 PM • 4 replies • view on HN

As a parent of two young boys, I am seriously confused in what values I should teach them. I am defaulting to traditionally "good" values because that's how I was raised and all I know. But there's a part of me that feels my kids will be at a disadvantage when they grow up, if they carry my values.


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jareklupinski • yesterday at 8:11 PM

religion used to promise a heaven for those who did good, and hell for those who do evil

life taught me that living well grants you admission to heaven here while you're alive, while committing things society still considers sin makes you live through hell right here on earth

cant imagine how much better/worse it gets if theres more after death

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tayo42 • yesterday at 9:20 PM

It's not that confusing to be good to people by default,but look out for your self and not be a sucker?

Unless you mean life skills to survive corporate culture. Then you just look out for your self,but give the impression you care lol. None of it's real relationships anyway

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gustavus • yesterday at 8:36 PM

"A virtue is something that is valuable even if it gives you nothing. A virtue persists without payment or compensation. Positive thinking is great. Vital. Useful. But it has to remain so even if it gets you nothing. Belief, truth, honor … if these exist only to get you something, you’ve missed the storming point." - Kaldin Stormblessed

As a parent of two young boys I've had the same concerns, but I would rather have them grow up to be men of virtue in poverty that can go to bed at night with a clear conscience than the most powerful man in the world without integrity.

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MykhailoSailor • yesterday at 8:37 PM

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