Even claude with “memory” enabled isn’t really “remembering” anything. It just injects it into the context and you hope it happens to find it relevant in its attention mechanisms, and then remembers to actually act on it. Anthropic’s own documentation states claude can and will ignore/truncate these. It’s a context trick, nothing approaching actual “memory,” and in fact, arguing with it will make a bunch of memory files, sometimes contradictory, and clutter up the context and act even worse.
I'm not a big fan of arguments like "it's not the real [human quality], it's [mechanistic explanation]." They lack a part: "because the [human quality] allows us to do X, Y, Z, which is impossible with [this mechanism]."
I agree that the relevance of retrieved pieces and the management of long-term storage could be improved, though.