I've always gone with Vultr (vultr.com) for BSD VMs, its properly supported by them and while I've never hard verified this, they seem like a nice smaller player. Like they have offered Open/Free BSD VM's for > 10 years, kind of nice.
I have a couple of FreeBSD VMs on Vultr. For quite some time sshd regularly dies on one of them and I am not sure why.
A couple of theories I’ve had is that maybe
a) my VM was compromised and there is a persistent rootkit installed that kills sshd, or
b) file corruption after previous unclean shutdown has left some file needed by sshd corrupted and it leads to this behaviour, or
c) maybe it’s running out of memory sometimes
Each time I want to ssh into the machine I usually have to first connect with the VNC from the vultr dashboard to start sshd up again.
It’s running the latest FreeBSD, as every now and then I log in and do an upgrade on it some time after a new version has been released.
A persistent rootkit may have been installed if it was compromised between when some vulnerability became known and when I later upgraded next time.
If a file was corrupted in an unclean shutdown in the past maybe it’s a file that has not been changed between FreeBSD versions so even though upgrades replace some files maybe it’s the same corrupted file all along.
Ideally I’d just reinstall the machine, but that’s always more of a hassle than it should be so I continue running the VM in this broken state where sshd keeps dying every now and then.
I used buyvm.net for BSD a while back. Didn't have any issues, and the few times I contacted their support they were quick to respond and helpful.
rootbsd.net before that, but they don't seem to exist anymore.
They were very helpful when one of the AMD firmware patches in 7.3 caused my VPS to not boot. They even offered to apply a manual fix until patch -015 was available which fixed it.
The admins have access to your data and unless things have changed, that isn't monitored. They also bend to NSLs like any other provider. What they charge vs what things cost hurts.
I remember when Vultr was new and had a single rack with a handful of boxes. Their site has no graphics apart from an ASCII logo. They had low prices but you often had to wait for them to build a new box before you could sign up. Their whole schtick at the time was, "we are building this for people who know what they are doing, don't bother us for support, we don't have any."
But they are not that small anymore. They are now VC-funded, operate in 36 datacenters worldwide and are currently spending $1 billion to build an AI datacenter in Ohio.